How to keep a journal - what
are the benefits of a daily journal?
Journal keeping - why keep a daily journal?
Your Journal, Your Journey, Your Story
Keeping A Journal by:
Doreene Clement
Everyone has a story. Your experiences, your
feelings, ideas, thoughts, and dreams all combine to form your life and your
journey, which is your story. A great way to keep a relative reflection of all
those things that have happened in your life is to keep a journal or diary. A
daily journal, a weekly journal, a month end summary journal, any or all these
are ways you can keep track and record your experiences, your story.
Your story, your journal is all about whatever, whomever, however, whenever you
want it to be about. YOUR journal can contain a word a day, a paragraph, or
pages. You can write in YOUR journal every day, or you can write every week or
every month. (Recently I did not journal for two months.) Some people have not
journaled for years and then started again, when the time was right for them.
Remember it is your journal, you choose when to write and when not to write.
YOUR journal contains whatever you want to write about - The beauty of the
sunset you saw tonight, your concerns and hopes for your children, the joy and
inspiration of the new art exhibit you just saw, your fear and excitement about
what is happening in a relationship, how happy you are with your new assignment
at work. Writing about whatever is important to you right then and there is
journaling. There can be a theme to your journal, or not. I have written about
soup, the weather, my self, my friends, and my dreams for the future. A journal,
which is the same as a diary, is a place where you choose to store what is
important to you.
The start of your journal can be any day of any year. The day you feel you want
to start recording your experiences and thoughts is the perfect day to start
journaling. It can be January 1, August 19, or today. There is no set time of
year to begin a journal or to start to journal again. Some people like the idea
of starting their journaling on January 1. They write their goals and ideas at
the beginning of the year. Others like the idea of starting the very day it
occurs to them that they want to write about their lives in a journal. Whatever
you choose, it is the right way for you, and that is all that matters.
What you want to journal in is up to you. You may get a notebook, plain paper,
or a blank book. You decide. What you want to write with, a pen or a pencil, is
also up to you. I journal with a favorite pen that makes my writing easier for
me because it "glides" across the paper. You can also record your journal on
tape, video, or the computer. Writing letters can be another form of journaling
your experiences. Another way to journal is to write daily on a calendar.
Remembering to take vitamins is hard for me to do everyday. Unless I set them
somewhere that I will see them, I can easily forget to take them. The same is
true for my journaling. So, I keep my journal on my desk where I will see it
every day. For you, that place may be where you have coffee in the morning, your
night stand, or by your exercise equipment. Keep it someplace where you will
notice it every day.
You may want to have a special, secret place for your journal, so no one else
can read it. You can keep it in a locked box, or tuck it away. You can also ask
the people around you not to read your journal, as it is private and only
concerns you. As you journal about specific events or people you can also use
code words or symbols for those experiences. It is important that you feel safe
as you write and express in your journal. Think about how you can create that
safe space for yourself in your own environment.
There are many benefits from keeping a journal. They include reducing stress,
help in setting daily and future goals, and help with the organization of your
thoughts and planning your day. Journaling also helps you focus as you are
putting in writing, making solid on the page, what you are thinking and feeling.
Write it down, get it out. A journal also creates a very helpful personal
reminder. Keeping a journal of your story, your experiences and feelings about
your life can improve your well-being, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Taking time every day or week for you, to sit and to write in your journal,
makes time for you. You can give that to yourself. The written record of your
story becomes a reassured keepsake, a written scrapbook of your life and times.
A place to start journaling
On a piece of paper, write your answers to the question,
"Which three words best describe how you are feeling right now?"
For example-happy, excited, positive
For example-nervous, tense, worried
When you are done writing, you have just journaled.
Writing, expressing, can heal us. It can focus, support, and enhance our lives
and well-being. Whether we laugh or we cry, whether through sorrow or joy, we
can understand more about ourselves, and each other, through keeping a journal.
With the passage of time, we gain a different perspective. Time is a healer.
What was once hard, or unbearable, can now make more sense, giving us a clearer
picture. Recording and tracking our lives by keeping a journal, can actually
bring relief, clarity, joy, and laughter.
Copyright Doreene Clement All Rights Reserved
About the author
Doreene Clement, a cancer victor
and author of The 5 Year Journal, is currently writing a new book, Blessed,
about her life and her cancer experience. For more information
www.the5yearjournal.com 480.423.8095 Copyright 2005 OMDC, LLC All Rights
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